The heat technique can work but you need to be very careful as there are other things there that can be affected such as the radiator shroud etc. For things like that I normally use MAP gas, a lot easier to deal with in tight confines. All this said, you should be using tubing wrenches and not normal open ended wrenches, but since you are going to replace them, just cut them off, let them drain and then you can use whatever (vice grips) to get them off.