Thanks guys, if I used RTV i'd only use a tiny bit as im sure as Aussie mentioned it could really become a problem. I'd really only need enough to fill in the little nicks and scratches on the surface, probably just a little tiny film thin enough you could see through, that's all.
But I did crank it down maybe another 1/8th - 1/4 of a turn. Im sure its on way tighter than it should be, I use a pipe on the ratchet to turn it but it's hard to tell how tight it really is because im using a long, flimsy extension. I beat the holy hell out of the car the other day, last I looked under it was dry but im going to jack it up later and really get my head in there to see. Im hoping maybe that worked....this is surely as tight as im going to get it so if this doesn't work, it's RTV time.