Matt,
I don't have your answers, but I do have a suggestion. Find a real good paint and body shop supply store in your area, the kind that sells to body shops. Talk with the counter guys about your situation and your goals for the project. Pick out a product line (like Dupont or PPG) and get contact information for that company's rep. Figure out which specific paint system you are going to use and talk about compatability issues with the rep. Then, shop around for someone to shoot the color on your car (assuming that you aren't doing it yourself) and ask him what he prefers. If all of the informaiton syncs up, you're good to go. I had a bad experience with incompatable fillers and primers that resulted in bleed through. Don't let that happen to you. Do a lot of homework.
Steve