Thanks for the grinding advice....sometimes we overlook the obvious. LOL
That worked...ground the top surface down just a little first using the side of the bench grinder's wheel....the took took a cone shaped grinding stone and ground the threads some.
All is right with the world again for the time being and the build can continue....
Dave, thanks for the offer man! Don't know what I would do without this forum and the people on it!
Just for future reference though....what is the best way to protect the threads on the pin AND the nut when using a press to press that pin in? The first one went just fine....dont know what happened on this one.