burnt orange- excellent post. You are well-read.
A book that explains why the Islamic world is in the shape it's in today is "What Went Wrong". It is a college-level history class paperback, but is an easy read. It chronicles Islams fall from greatness (there were once cultural and scientific leaders).
Think about this- by keeping the women underfoot, uneducated and at home, their society from the getgo deprive themselves of one-half their resources for greatness. The boys see how dad treats mom, picks up on it real quickly, treats all women that way. No Valentines day in the Islamic world!
dodj makes an excellent point, calling it an "unattainable task". Our military is the best in the world at routing bad guys, but no military on earth can change a culture.