Life can be cruel

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Offline Talkwrench

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Life can be cruel
« on: October 04, 2012 - 10:01:41 PM »
   Just going to have a “vent” as Im feelin a bit down this morning..
 I came back from seeing a friend, he’s really my brother’s mate but I have known Darrin for a while now he is our age mid forties. He is a mad car guy, has owned an immaculate mid sixes Lincoln and currently a 64 GTO. The thing is he will never drive the GTO, he is in the mid stages of motor neurons.
 I went to see him as my brother came up from where he lives  about five hours away and one and a half for me, he has moved to a small country town in Western Australia where h is family live . He’s a very smart guy and was originally working for computer company in the USA, its where he spent his working life.
My brother spent the week with him helping him set up the house he is renting, watching the football and rugby grand finals as well as nursing him. My brother said as I drove away he fell over in the driveway splitting his head open, he wanted to take him to the hospital as it was quite a bit of damage, he refused to go and instead he sat up drinking until 1 in the morning , that’s Darrin for you! We light cigarettes and push them into his mouth and he’s happy.
While I was with him we had to go over and pick up the GTO from his brother and bring to his house a few blocks away, he wanted me to drive it. I thought it was unregistered but he said “no its fully registered and its got ¾ tank of gas”  Of course I said “lets go then!”  I drove him miles out of town in this dusty 600hp GTO with the thought of “this is his last ride” , I pushed the throttle down a bit and let her go… Frightened me and I only had it down a 1/3rd of the way and later realized the two other carbs don’t come in until 2/3rds of the way down ..Guueezzus!
 I doubt if his brother will take him out in it he is deteriorating fast, such a shame as the car was a nut and bolt resto. I believe he will leave it to his brother who has a desirable Falcon yet that lives in a chook shed. I feel the same may come of this car.
Anyway I’ve said my bit, got some off my chest. WE are car guys and I feel privileged to have taken him on his last ride.
« Last Edit: October 04, 2012 - 10:16:14 PM by Talkwrench »
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Re: Life can be cruel
« Reply #1 on: October 04, 2012 - 10:29:59 PM »
So sorry to hear about your friend. It sure looks like a beautiful motor & car. I've never heard of the disorder you mention. Is this Parkison's Disease or ALS (Lou Gerrig Disease)?? It sounds like your friend is someone that lives life to the fullest and it sounds like you & your brother have been such wonderful friends to make him comfortable and enjoy his days. Having a friend like that is what we all would want. At the least you can take comfort in knowing you are making your friend comfortable & happy. My thoughts & prayers go out to you and your friend!  :angelwings:


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Re: Life can be cruel
« Reply #2 on: October 04, 2012 - 11:48:31 PM »
Nice GTO  :2thumbs: so sorry about your friend  :( I only hope when my time comes i have a friend who would do the same for me as you did.
 
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« Reply #3 on: October 05, 2012 - 12:36:36 AM »
Horrible thing to get. you dont live long everything shuts down bit by bit, then to a wheelchair and usually you choke to death. Alot of people suicide rather than see the end. No chance with it, he will probably be gone by early next year..
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Re: Life can be cruel
« Reply #4 on: October 05, 2012 - 12:50:16 AM »
That is very sad, I hope he gets a few more good moments like you have given him. You and your brother are great people  :2thumbs:
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Re: Life can be cruel
« Reply #5 on: October 05, 2012 - 08:42:41 AM »
very sad :angelwings:

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« Reply #6 on: October 05, 2012 - 08:47:00 AM »
Sorry about your buddy! It's most likely a great comfort for him know your there for him!  :2thumbs:

You should take him out as often as possible. I know that's what I'd want to do anyhow!
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Re: Life can be cruel
« Reply #7 on: October 05, 2012 - 09:15:00 AM »
SOrry to hear about your friend.  Sorry if I missed it, but why did he fall over in the drive way?  Did he have a pre-existing ailment?  :clueless:
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Re: Life can be cruel
« Reply #8 on: October 05, 2012 - 11:13:54 AM »
Talkwrench, the kindness we show people when they need it the most always comes back to us in some way when we least expect it.
You're a good friend, you've done the right thing.

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« Reply #9 on: October 06, 2012 - 09:03:17 AM »
He feel over because he can barely walk now and his balance has gone ,he really should be in a wheelchair. He has no support in his neck so he looks down and shuffles along. He just simply clipped an A/C unit sticking out from the house on a concrete driveway with quite a slope he just went over.. Felt so sorry for my brother,he wanted to get him to the hospital, he just wouldn't go so he packed towels around his head and did the best he could for him... Didn't stop him drinking though.. ::)
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Re: Life can be cruel
« Reply #10 on: October 06, 2012 - 12:46:59 PM »
Life is never fair , you do what you can for people to help them get through life , sounds like he has had a good run for the short time he has had . Sad way to end though .

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