as long as the rocker will not touch the spring through the normal range of travel ther eis nothing to worry about , lifting th erocker above the valve tip is excessive & not in the normal range oif travel
side spacing on the rockers would vary with the material the rocker is made of , iron or stainless rockers will not Grow with heat so the clearance can be relatively tight posiibly as low as .004 but alum needs more like .010 minimum as it expands more