I grabbed my Dad, packed up a couple changes of clothes, gassed up the minivan. and headed out on the 13 hour drive(1 way). Not only was I able to check out the car in person and crawl all over it, I could hear it run and drive it. I signed the certified check and took the title along. I found a local hauler who would haul my car and my car alone. No warehousing, no monkey business.
My Dad and I got to reconnect a little bit, and it was an adventure neither of us will soon forget.
If something like that isn't possible, the next best thing might be finding a member who is close and willing to get a ton of photos and an unbiased opinion of the car.