There are tricks for doing good flares. It really does start with a good double flare kit however. It'll come out as good and as smooth as your tools are. As far as bending goes, just the same. I've used cheap, and nice roller eastwood tubing benders. Definately worth the money if you plan on doing it.
And the factory came with one short and one longer line on the diff, so no, no issues there. Just not any 'S' bends. Now you can get some pre-double-flared lines from say NAPA. Come in different lengths with fittings on them already. Bend them yourself. For something not too complicated it may be worth while to get a nice bender and some predone up lines to tweak.
Justa thought!