Looking at the picture, I can still see some adjusting bolt sticking out of the control arm. This would tell me you don't have them turned in enough. Not sure what springs you have out back, but with the vehicle as empty as it is, the whole car may sit a bit taller than it will when complete. The shocks will have no impact on this. Another possible scenario is that you tightened down all the suspension components while the car was in teeh air and all the suspension was hanging. Thise creates a tight spot and tends to hold everything in place until you put a lot of weight in the car or cycle the suspension, resulting inthe high boy look you have.
Honestly, don't worry about it. Once the car is all together and everything loaded, then you need to set ride height and then get an alignment, in that order.
...and yes, t-bars over 1" don't have right or left sides.