Do you have access to a wiring schematic for your car? I have one for the '73 e-bodies that I will scan tonight and post here if that will help.
Sit back - have a cool beverage and get back at it checking the grounds. By the way are all the sockets for the bulbs in the housings. On some cars, especially the Challenger's the rear housings are part of the ground circuit. If the socket is out of the housing, feedback in the system occurs and the lights really do weird things.
Good luck - you are close.