I have a reverse manual valve body. I like it because I like to shift, but still retain the benefits of an automatic transmission. If you don't like shifting, then don't get one. The reverse pattern is the way to go if you race or speed shift. The reverse pattern has you shifting away from neutral instead of toward it. This prevents you from accidently shifting into neutral or worse reverse. I once accidentally shifted my Challenger into reverse while speed shifting. It was a slap-stick shifter which shouldn't allow this to happen, but was worn and not properly adjusted. It destroyed my tranny!
What I have now suits me well and I like it, but like I said, it requires shifting up/down every time you stop/go and I still have my stock slap-stick shifter. It's all about what you want/like!
Matt B.