I never use locktite on them, and I have always used the "till it stops, plus a good pull" method...lol.
Anyway - a quick tip: before you install the convertor in the trans, or the flex plate on the engine... Lay the flex plate on the convertor and orient it so the bolt holes line up. Then take some paint or a marker and mark over the flex plate and the convertor so the marks are easily seen on both. I like to hit it with spray paint or something that makes it crazy obvious. Then put the plate on the engine, and the convertor in the transmission making sure it seats fully in the pump. Then when you're under it and the engine is in place, you just spin the crank until the marks show, and then turn the convertor so the marks line up, and then proceed to start the bolts. I go finder tight on all four, then go back and torque them fully. If you just torque fully you may have a vibration or have a bolt or two that doesn't want to start easy.