Rubbing won't do it folks,rubbing with oil will really have the oppisiste effect, so.............you have heard of tummy tucks? Well just think of butt tucks as an excercise, it takes some serious muscle work but I guess it will really work, it involves quite a work out, a squatting motion with an inner muscle tightening at the same time. But honestly oil will not work, that's why you baste a turkey at thanksgiving to soften and tenderize it, right?..................I know, none of you beleive me.