GOT IT!!
As it turns out there was a very good reason there was no ignition accesories.
The bundle of wires going to the steering wheel held the 12 volt hot in, which then when you turn the key brings the accesories on. There was a clip that had a bad connection in it. Bypassed it and everything was back to good. I didn't even find any proof of anything melting ( and believe me, I went through it ALL ). The best I can tell is from my original "melting" it created a bad contact point in the harness at that point. I then to be on the safe side did the following:
1 - replaced the major hot wires anyway with a thicker gauge wire
2 - after seeing there was NO fusible link, I added one ( a whole 3 bucks )
3 - bought and installed a cool fuse block doo-hickey. I was then able to add up to 6 more citcuits with out piggy backing off of any other fuses. Now things like my new fan, radio, sirius satelite and neon lights have there own block.
I can't thank you guys enough for your info - but I'll try anyway
Thanks very much!!