The crush sleeve gets crushed when you tighten the pinion nut down to establish a preload on the bearings. If you havent tightened it down yet, I wouldnt worry about it being loose. Because the sleeve has been crushed before, there will be a lot of play in it until it is retightened. Whatever you do, do NOT use an impact wrench. The impacting action will brinell and damage the bearings. There is no torque spec on the nut directly, it is determined by the turning torque of the pinion yoke. Did you measure the turning torque before you disassembled it? I'm not sure what the exact spec is for that, but you need to tighten it and measure the turning torque until it is correct. If you didnt measure it before hand, the service manual will have a turning torque spec for both the pinion and the diff. Assuming you didnt mess with the diff, add the two specs together to figure out the total turning torque you should see when you measure it. Go slowly, and tighten it in small increments measuring in between, if you go too far the crush sleeve will need to be replaced. Then you'll have to set it all up again. You'll need a beam type torque wrench capable of reading inch pounds to do this correctly. Oh yeah, the turning torque will be different for new and used bearings, and make sure the axles aren't installed when you measure the turning torque.