Well, valve size and port size are not quite the same thing. When they say port size, they're talking about the ports in the head, not valve size. You won't be killing off any real amount of torque with stock ports just by installing 2.14" valves, and will probably gain a bit of flow. As for quench, your 9.8:1 ratio might be problematic without any quench, or it might not. Cam specs and cooling system abilities figure in here.
To get quench, you don't necessarily need new heads. There are pistons out there designed with the combustion chamber shape of heads like yours in mind. They go out of their way to shape the top of the piston such that it approaches the head closely enough to produce good quench. But, like I said you may not have any detonation problems at all.