i have an excellent understanding wife also, i had a checkbook once for about 2 months but i kept bouncing checks, she never told me my balance was about $5000.00
The bank called her and i lost my privileges - she has financed the 70 challenger convertible with little grief $50K to start; hemi 24K, moser 60, GVO, etc etc etc
The car went to the body shop today - funnily i say to her if i have to ask how much i spent in 12 months - she wouldn't want to know