Congratulations,
With one out of every 2 marriages ending up in divorce, you've beaten the odds. That's a real accomplishment & my hat's off to the both of you!! Marriage is work & a partnership. I used to think it was a 50/50 deal, but some wise advice from my pastor was that it's whatever it needs to be at the time; sometimes 50/50, other times 70/30. I'm sure you can give some words of wisdom to the newlyweds here!! As my dad used to say, "Do you want to be right, or do you want to be married?"
It has helped me to put my wife first and God at the center of our home & marriage!! Congrats!!!
Matt B.