If you ever saw the directions with most of the supension components, it always said to tighten them with the suspension loaded. That way the bushings aren't trying to twist when lowering the car. The "home" position on the rubber should be ride height so it can deflect in both directions without tearing out either way. Just reach under there, loosen them then retighten them.
You did put the head of the bolt towards the frame so that it can't fall out, right?
As far a bouncing, just pull the lower shock off of the plate and bounce it a little after you retighten everything and see it the car settles evenly. It's like bouncing a basketball when you have the shocks off.
As far as tightening the FRONT spring bolt, I get it as tight as I can. Was that the ??
BTW; Your 160amp 220 welder should be able to do the perches without any problem.