Sorry to hear that, Steve. Hope everything works out ok for you and your familiy.
Sometimes it helps to keep doing the things you normally do to keep your mind off of sad thoughts. Do something with your family to make you happy.
I kinda know how you feel right now, my uncle's wake is tommorrow and funeral on Saturday. He taught me to fish, golf, and my first car was his '67 Olds Cutlass.
Take care and stay strong, bud.