Our first grandchild was born on March 24th. Unfortunately, he required immeidate surgery, so had to be life-flighted to Childrens Hospital in Pittsburgh. Initially, we were told that he would probably be there about six weeks. Today, we found out that he has developed some complications as the result of his condition and surgery, and may now have to stay for at least another five months.
Needless to say, we are heartbroken. The staff and nurses at Childrens have been absolutely first class, and there is no way that we can ever thank them enough, but I just feel so bad that he will be there, instead of bonding with his family and enjoying all of the love that we want to give him. It's been very hard on his parents, and us, because its a 2.5 hour trip each way, and we can only do it one day a week. We, and his parents, go down on different days, so that someone will be with him at least a couple of days each week. None of the local hospitals are able to provide the level of care that he needs, so we dont even have the option of transferring him here. I just feel sad that so many of his "firsts" will occur with strangers, instead of us.
Most of you know that I lost my job in Feb, and have not found another job yet. I really only have been looking locally for employment, because of the gas situation, but I am now seriously considering looking for a job in Pittsburgh, so that I can be down there during the week and spend time with him in the evenings. It would kill two birds with one stone, because I'd be employed again, and I'd get to spend time with him, but it would also mean that I wouldn't get to see my own kids during the week. I have a friend down there that I could live with, so having a place to stay would not be a problem. Moving the whole family is not a realistic option at this time. I know the final decision will be mine, but I'm just trying to consider different options. Sometimes, you just feel helpless when confronted with something like this. I've spent most of my professional career solving problems, but there just doesnt seem to be an ideal solution for this one.
I just wanted to get it off my chest, and to ask that all of you keep him in your prayers, in the hope that he may get better sooner, and come home to us that much quicker.
