Ok, so i finally called Petronix. The issue with Doug's D453's not fitting is simply the fact that a mini starter is needed. They did say that was for a Mopar Mini starter, but i wouldnt think the others are very different.
I'll bet they lose alot of business when they state up front that it wont fit at all.....
So, i should finally be ordering this coming week. The guy on Abodies decided to keep his, no biggie.