I watched this group by post from the begining. We have had other group buys here in the past. They were different then the way this one was set up, and seemed to go ok.
The other group buys were not set up by someone needing the particular part as well and wanting a discount. Usually a vender will annonce one, give a time limit, collect the money and send parts when the quota is reached. This is usually around a 30 day or month option.
This group buy seemed like it was being pushed and with a sales pitch, not like the usual types. Group buys work nice when there is enough people actually wanting an item in a timely manner.
I really believe that if it wasnt for you wanting a discount for your own project, that this would of went more smoothly and not seem to pushy. Also harsh words like calling members out makes them feel like they are loosers and not trusting members. When it comes to wiring and it is not an exact repro, it can get a little confusing to some.
This may be an open forum, but it is with registered members. No contracts are signed, some have other issues with time and also delays in the project building. I believe a certain percentage of who will buy and who changes their mind is a factor when the buy was so small. So it seemed normal to me a couple would choose not to buy for their own reasons.
There is a difference in a member making a decision on his own and commiting / to a member being persuaded into something they may need on a later date. Any item that is a good item and is needed to be bought soon will sell quickly without the sales pitch. It would have more direct questions asked then remarks made.
A post question is less aggressive sounding then a phrase of embarrassment . Like Is there a problem with my group buy guys? Then you could of gotten answer instead of remarks. I just think timing was off on this buy and a little pushy for another mans gains as well. Are you going to get your discount or do you have to pay full price.
We have good members here. No matter how this buy turns out. And they can still be trusted in my eyes