Ok here is what i did just now. I took the small wire loose that comes from the starter and attaches to the relay and used a small wire attached to it as a jumper to touch to the positive post of the battery. Nothing at all happened. I checked both wires at the starter and they were both tightened good where they connect on the starter. I then hooked a battery charger to my battery which is fully charged according to the meter on the charger so it's not my battery. Headlights are good and bright.
So then i had to rule out the wires going to the starter so i went underneath with my charger and hooked the positive end to the large terminal on the starter and then i grounded the negative cable to the starter housing and it did nothing but spark a little. just to make sure, i tried the positive cable to the smaller post on the starter with the charger as well and it did nothing. It didn't even spark off the smaller post.
I then checked the chasis ground wire which is good and tight coming off the battery. What now? By the way, from the looks of things, the bolts to the headers look like they are going to be a monster to get to and even then, it's so tight in there that the center link looks like it may have to come out as well just to let the starter move enough to come out. What do you guys think now? Is the tight fit between the headers and starter because this is a 73 Challenger with a big block instead on the smaller block that is supposed to be in a 73?