Materials costs will be similar no matter where you are (in the Continental US anyway) but the difference will be labor. Where do you live? Just give general area if you are not comfortable sharing that info.
For example, I was quoted 200 hours to do a quality paint job on my car, not rotisserie. Depending where you live, that could be $20,000 (at $100@hr - San Fransisco Bay Area) or $6000 (at $30@hr). A ballpark figure I was given for a "restoration" to stock with just about all you mentioned excluding rust repair (because no one can accurately quote rust repair without seeing the car) was about $125k, again SF bay area.
So again, where do you live? And more importantly, what are the labor rates in your area?
Another consideration is time, figure you will be without your car for over a year I would think AFTER getting the car into the shop. Anyplace that is doing high end quality work is going to be booked solid. The place that quoted me 20k for a paint job has an 18 month wait list.
I'm also curious on 72 Hemi's clear coat..$1000 a gallon??? Is it some crazy Glasurit or something? I think most colors are more expensive than the clear, so how much is the color you are using?