I have been to five Arab countries, Jordan, Bahrain, Iraq, Kuwait, and Qatar. I have met Muslims from all of those places. I fought in Iraq Twice, 6 months in the Invasion and 6 months a year later as a combat replacement. I was in the Marine Corps Infantry, and had plenty of time to get to know the local people, especially our translators. The thing about Muslims is that they will believe whatever their Imam believes. If the Imam says "Westerners are evil. We must try to kill as many as possible.", they will. If he tells them to be a suicide bomber so they can get their 72 virgins, they will. I once asked our translator what he would do if saw a porn video with his sister in it. He said he would cut her into 1000 pieces. He was dead serious too. These people don't think like we do whatsoever. Anyone who believes that they are just like us but with slightly different beliefs is completely wrong. The only people they hate more than Westerners is Jews. And they don't just attack the US, they attack everywhere, from England to Thailand. They even tried to bomb the Vatican because it is a Catholic "stronghold" if you were.
In an elementary school in Southern Baghdad, in an area now called Sadr City (it used to be called Saddam City before the invasion) there was a mural in the main downstairs floor of Iraqi soldiers slaughtering Jews and holding their heads up. It was a very gory, very graphic mural, about 100 feet long and 10 feet tall. This was in an Elementary school. Now tell me these people aren't bred to hate.