I cant imagine those few changes would make a huge difference in my car. I've got heavy sway bars f & r and moog poly bushings everywhere. My car has been described as a total tank with all the weight (440-6, iron everything, scattershield, a/c, power everything, etc etc).
Those upper a arms...whats so different about them from stock? Is it the adjustments you can make with them. I mean, they look cool, but they perform the same functions as the stock a arms dont they? They just stiffer??
I think what my car could use is some chassis/frame stiffening ala torque boxes and maybe the connectors. Now that would probably go a long way toward improving the stock handling.