Depending on your perspective, an asshole is a convient thing to have actually.
Whenever I hear that word it reminds me of a susposedly true story, but I heard it second hand so.? A teenage girl who had her values in proper perspective but yet obviously had a way of throwing zingers whenever she wanted to had this experience . Anyway she was upset after comming home from a date, a guy she had been going steady with. When asked by her parents why she was so upset she told them she had just broke up. When asked why she said the guy had just kept trying to pressure her into having sex. Her parents did't expect this kind of conversation. She cleared the mood when she told them, "I told him NO, I already have an asshole in my pants, I don't need another one !"
And I'm sure all of us have been "assholes" in somebodys perspective somewhere along the way,............then I passed by a mirror, kinda like the expression about pointing fingures.
It's a universal club and we all are allowed membership.