I ended up going to the hardware store.
I kept thinking "why would ma mopar have put TWO wave washers in one hole".......I then surmised that someone before me had pulled this apart perhaps to replace broken glass and then mistakingly used two in one and none in the other spot.
I got some correctly sized (thin) steel washers, rubber washers and felt washers...all were found in the "lamp parts" section of the hardware store.
Turns out the felt washers work perfect far as I can tell....one each, paired with one wave washer.
I put the window back in and got everything working.
The frustrating part is that I still have issues with the front window...when it is being rolled up with the door closed, it wants to travel BEHIND the (new) quarter window molding.
I decided to wait til I get new weatherstrip molding for the door and then address...I think perhaps my REAR window is out of adjustment as it has slop etc.
decided to let that go til another day....LOL
Probably wont be long....its realliy annoying to have to roll the rear window down some first, roll the front up and then roll up the rear.
This only started after I replaced the whiskers and quarter window moldings.....