*******update
Ah....the drama!
Well, i figured that if I could get a whopping $3 back (another dollar) I would at least feel a little better and still have a plate I could in theory use, if not the correct way. So I sent a pleasant note asking if he would agree to that....
The guy emails back another one liner and says to just send it back and he will refund my money.
So I guess that $1 is a huge thing for him, so I replied back to just send me the $2 refund....waiting for a reply.
My feeling/concern is that he wont want to pay me the full refund PLUS reimburse me the $4.50 additional or so that I will have to spend to get it back to him....that wouldn't make sense. All he has said is he will refund my money. No mention of paying for the return shipping. Unless he figures he could get at least that much more back reselling it with broken pins? Did I get a steal or something? $11 for the dash plate, without pins?
Now that I have seen the thing I could probably make something that would pass for it, but I figure its already done....so I would keep it.
Of course now I suppose he can renig on the refund offer and say take it or leave it at full price. Should he decide to renig on his partial refund offer I guess then I go to paypal etc. and complain.
I have no way to know he wont screw me for the return shipping plus the paypal fees I would have to pay to get the additional money.........so I may as well keep the damn thing and hope he has morals and refunds at least the $2.
LOL I know....big finance!