It turns out I'm not an idiot, at least not about this. I couldn't get third gear since I got the car and was told to lock it in neutral with an allen key and adjust the shifter rods. I couldn't find the hole to lock the shifter so I thought I was missing something. Last week I pulled the trans etc to replace the clutch an found what the problem was. The 4 speed was put in with the auto tunnel. The shifter is mounted to the car and not to the mounts on the back of the trans, which had been ground off or broken. The bottom of the shifter was in a tunnel of its own, so I couldn't see the adjusters, and there's an access hole in front of the shifter to get at the rods and the top left bolt on the trans. The bracket for the shifter didn't have a hole to get at the slots to lock everything in neutral, but it does now. I drilled a big old half inch hole in the plate and had to adjust the 3-4 rod by half an inch to get it adjusted. It turns out that I have a 1967 883 with close ratio gears. I figured I would do a little work on the trans while it was out, so it's not marking territory in the garage anymore. Next step is pick up my shaker, 71 quarters, tail panel, sail panel and then hunt down a shaker bubble and a few other little bits. All that's probably going to happen after I finish my 340 though