So, I made it to the local PPG paint shop on Friday. My paint guy says that as far as flex primer, they do make an additive. However, you add the additive to the primer and paint prior to application. He also says that the flex agent will evaporate from the paint within a week or two and the paint. Now, he also says that with todays modern paints, "They are designed to be more flexible due to all of the plastic and flexible parts on today's late model cars."
So, it sounds like the epoxy is the way to go and since I am not handling a complete nose off of a modern car, I will not have near as much flex going on. So, I think I will be OK. The worse that could happen is that I have to sand the paint back off a few years from now. LOL