UPDATE , ok so its obviously not ignition related, ive tried a new coil, pickup coil, ballast resistor, ignition module.. heres a new clue, while i was screwing around with it i knocked the BIG vaccum line off of the brake booster and nothing happend, it was sucking air like crazy, but didnt die, or even affect the idle?? how is that even possible, i can put my finger over the line and it IS sucking.