Thanks for the compliments. The wheels are AR Torque Thrust IIs, 17x7 front and 17x8 rear. The tires are 235/55-17 front, and 255/60-17 rear. The rears are pretty much as big as I could get without any modifications.
I toyed with all the thoughts you are having, and this is how it ended up, and I would not change a thing. The stripes do not look right without the RT at the end, because they come up too short. I never really did think about the grille blackout, but don't think I would change it, either. I have seen some nice looking ones with the grille blackout, so it's worth looking at if you think you might want it.
I guess to each his own as to how they build their cars, but like I said, I would not change anything on mine.