CudaZ: I've gone thru the same questions. Your axle ratio and tire diameter is exactly the same as mine. Soon as the snow melts I'll let you know how my car runs.
For cast iron exhaust manifolds should use a split pattern cam. The XE268H sounds like a decent duration, though they say the 'rpm' comes in at 2500 rather than the 2000 your looking for. BUT...when you go 4 speed that will drop your first gear ratio and help off-line performance.
One of the big complaints of the Comp cams is almost all are ground to fit chevy lifter diameters. On the other hand Comps lobe/valve lift is not pushing the limits (old style somewhat conservative for longer valvetrain life). Some say to reach for a cam matched to Mopar larger .904 lifter diameter. Others say there is risk using the 904 lobes because these more aggressive cam lobes require the lifter bores be correctly located in the engine block, and factory tolerances were not all that precise.
You could consider both Lunati and Bullet/Ultradyne...
I know from personal experience the Lunati cams lobes are ground smoother than the Comp lobes. To me this is one sign of better quality.
For Lunati, their 60402 cam would work very well, has 112 LSA for smooth idle and broad torque curve. Maybe slightly conservative, but should have excellent street manners and good valvetrain life (not wild valve lift) with 1.5 rocker arm ratio:
http://www.lunatipower.com/Product.aspx?id=1544&gid=287For heads, as I bought parts for my 360 years ago I bought Edel RPM magnums to ge the increased rocker arm ratio and slightly better combustion chamber shape...they seem ok....but after cam break in I removed all the rocker arms to inspect the rocker/valve tip contact pattern. Two cylinders (both intake and exhaust valves) have the contact pattern at one edge of the valve tip only, not laying across the width of the tip. I thought maybe it was the rocker arm; but why BOTH int & exh valves on certain cylinders?? This has me questioning the angle the holes were drilled for the rocker arm studs. I'm going to run it, have no choice, no mega $$ to do differently.
So maybe stay away from the magnum style heads for that reason, plus 1.5/1.6 rocker arm ratios are now more available for shaft mounted rocker arms (they are better than stud mount any way you look at it).
Word has it TWO companies are working on performance cylinder heads for small block mopars, supposed to be released end of this year or next. I'd like to run what I have for a couple years then upgrade to something better if it is available. IMO if AFR offered a SB mopar head I'd really take a look.