He eventually did give me $200 back. I straight away drove over to the butcher shop and bought about $80 something worth of giant steaks. By the time I got back he had company over so I walked up and said here is a peace offereing and walked away. Next day he saw me in the yard came over and thanked me and said that wasen't nessesary but thank you very much. Can't say we are " buddies" or anything but no tension anymore anyhow. It all worked out in the end. His daughter came over and appolagised for her dad being such an ass ( her words)