Thanks to all of you. It is sort of a good news/bad news situation.
The original fear of colon cancer has been changed to a diagnosis of Crohn's Disease.
Even though that is better news, she is very depressed.
She now faces 50 or 60 years of this misery and sees her ambitions of becoming the senior engineer in her company flying out the window.
The drugs she will be taking cost more than $30,000 a year, but for now her company plan and our government medical will cover all of it.
Eventually she will be paying 4 or 5 thousand herself.
They have two very young children who she now fears for as well. Colon cancer runs in her family and is a concern.
She just feels so sorry for her husband and fears for the pressures it will put on their relationship.
She is just starting out and it seems so unfair. I wish I could trade with her.