We still have trouble with Owen being in a bad mood when he wakes up from sedation every day. Maybe knowing he can open a couple Hot Wheels cars(if he behaves) will help with that. However, I'm afraid that sending a package every couple days will get way too expensive. You can do whatever works for you but please don't spread yourself thin due to shipping costs.
As far as our money situation goes, so far we are OK. It looks like a large portion of Owen's initial hospital bills have been covered by insurance. As far as his cancer treatments are concerned, St Jude covers all costs that insurance does not. This is an amazing place. It's comforting to know that we have Owen in the right place. No matter what happens, we know we are leaving nothing on the table.
My wife is going back to work very soon. My job is still paying me a salary even though I'm not there. They've said they will continue to pay me until Owen's radiation treatments are done. Things are yet to be figured out once the second phase of Owen's treatments start but we are trying to come up with a solution that works for everyone.