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Offline spamtank

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Re: my worst fear
« Reply #90 on: December 25, 2012 - 07:09:22 PM »
Right now he's upset that he can't go outside and play. :lol:

This is the kid who hobbled around for three days after getting a shot in his leg....The kid who got a tiny cut on his hand and his whole arm became unusable for two days. :lol:  Now he's stitched up all over the place and he's handling it surprisingly well.

Can't keep a good Mopar Kid down.  Go get'em Darren.
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Re: my worst fear
« Reply #91 on: December 25, 2012 - 09:38:58 PM »
I`m very happy to read that your little guy is doing so well that must be the best Christmas present of all!   :woohoo:

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Re: my worst fear
« Reply #92 on: December 25, 2012 - 11:05:10 PM »
Glad to hear he is improving, and more prayers for his continued recovery.  :)
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Re: my worst fear
« Reply #93 on: December 26, 2012 - 09:38:06 AM »
Awesome news, great to hear that he is recovering so well and so fast! :thumbsup:
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Re: my worst fear
« Reply #94 on: December 28, 2012 - 10:21:24 AM »
While we were in the hospital I had a gut feeling we weren't being told everything. Yesterday they finally told us the whole story and it isn't looking good.

Owen's cancer is highly aggressive and growing fast. His prognosis isn't good. The doctors gave us three options. The first option is to do nothing. If we went that route, Owen would be gone in six months. The second option involves extremely high doses of chemo and some type of bone marrow transplant.(I don't know how a bone marrow transplant would help since the cancer is in the spine and spinal fluid.) The third option is chemo and radiation. This is the national protocall for this type of cancer. It has the best chance for recovery however, The side effects are very bad. If it did stop the cancer and it came back, you can't do radiation again.

Young children who get radiation can have...stunted growth, decreased motor skills, low learning capacity(5th grade intelligence for life), being dependent on others for care, not being able to hold down a job and the possibility of a radiation induced tumor later on.

We don't know what path to take. None of them are good routes. If the radiation stopped the cancer but Owen ended up mentally challenged, that would kill me...he is such a smart little guy.

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Re: my worst fear
« Reply #95 on: December 28, 2012 - 10:30:35 AM »
So very sad to hear!  :'( 

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« Reply #96 on: December 28, 2012 - 10:48:07 AM »
....  that is hard  :banghead:
I know you feel what the correct decision is for your boy and family.  All I can say is to do whatever it takes to go that direction.  The cards are dealt, you can't change the past and shouldn't think about it.  Right now and moving forward, it all about playing the cards the best way you can to win.

I will also tell you that I had an uncle who had a aggressive brain tumor and was given 4 to 6 months to live.    He ended up going to MD Anderson in Houston and they ended up helping him for nine years.  Those nine years were not bad ones either.   That is not saying that none of it was hard, but the family helped him get though those moments.

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« Reply #97 on: December 28, 2012 - 10:59:47 AM »
I am so sorry to hear this...   :'(
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« Reply #98 on: December 28, 2012 - 11:06:39 AM »
I am so sorry to hear this as well! I`m still praying for a complete recovery for your little guy and strength to you and your family for the difficult days and decisions ahead!

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« Reply #99 on: December 28, 2012 - 02:08:29 PM »
I'm generally not one to say this, but I'll be praying for you.


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Re: my worst fear
« Reply #100 on: December 28, 2012 - 03:44:20 PM »
 :o :crying:  I don't know what to say.... 
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Offline sadil340

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Re: my worst fear
« Reply #101 on: December 29, 2012 - 08:31:30 AM »
Nothing I can say will help but we are all with you.
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Re: my worst fear
« Reply #102 on: December 30, 2012 - 08:11:14 PM »
Sorry to hear the news.  We'll be praying for you and your family to make the right decisions!
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Re: my worst fear
« Reply #103 on: December 30, 2012 - 10:35:56 PM »
I'm sorry to hear this.  I'm still hoping for a positive outcome. 

My best wishes to you and your family.  I feel devastated for you.

Please, if there is any way I can help, let me know.

Rick
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Re: my worst fear
« Reply #104 on: December 30, 2012 - 11:35:24 PM »
Me too!

I'm really hoping to hear a positive step forward on his progress.
Mike, Fremont, CA.