Hi, I really feel for you buddy. I went through the same thing myself with a motor that I got out of an RV. I even heard it run before I bought it, thought I was getting a very good engine. It had a vibration, just like yours. I did all of the things that are mentioned here. I picked up that engine for a small price, thinking that it would get me started down the road.
It was a cast crank engine and everyone that I had chatted with said that the next thing to do was to get the engine out of the car, and get it balanced. I didn't want to put more $ into an engine that would not return any of my $ so I went looking for a steel crank engine. Found a good engine to do a full rebuild on, got it all balanced, assembled it and installed it. Also I changed out the neutral torque converter for a internal balanced engine converter. Now no vibration felt. Wished I'd have just made a new engine in the first place. Good Luck this hobbie is so much fun.
Steve