I will just answer all 4 comments in one reply:
1. Ourname: The disto is a vacuum advance unit and it was disconected and the carb port was plugged. What RPM am i looking? no idea what the actual rpm is but it's fairly low as i'm looking for it at idle. I do not have a tach or a timing gun that tell me the rpm. I have double and triple checked the wires on the cap I can garantee that are correct. I have cheked the internet, the repair manual, everywhere I can to make sure I am using the right sequence. I Also see no rubber or evidence of rubber around the balancer
2. Burdar: I had a dial back light but while doing the initial timing the bulb died, the light was over 30 years old and it was well used so I am going on a parts store regular blinking light one. Advance was always disconected.
3. Strawdawg i have checked this time and time again, I have ruled it out.
4. Chryco: I am thinking about the piston stop method because I am running out of ideas. Short of taking this thing to a car show and asking some of the old timers to help this young gun out, I cannot do the timing by ear with the loudness of the exhaust I have no idea what I am listening for and find it very hard to find the pinging sound unless I am in the car and driving it. If you didn`t live half the world away in latitude i`d pass it by you lol. Also I might not have been born when you threw away your timing light haha.
I think it`s also safe to say I am not really looking for max power I am way more concerned about having a car that runs right, starts everytime, is dead reliable and gets decent MPG. It`s a 318, a904, open highway rear gear it will never be fast.
What if I tried doing the timing off the number 2 cly, would that help or what if the air fuel mixture is off, could that have an afect.