Using the "Form-A-Gasket" type of selaer and allowing it to partially dry... better to allow it to completely dry, because, as it would still be "wet", it could act as a lubricant and allow the gasket to slip out of position. Gasket instructions within the manufacturer's package will typically refer to use a "quick-drying contact adhesive/cement" for cork-rubber gaskets, or else the hi-temp rubber-coated fiber gaskets.... and rubber gaskets are best installed dry. The critical point is to be certain whatever chemical used (IF used.. I never use any because I have flat flanges of the cover and head!), is that the chemical will be completely dried to the gasket BEFORE squeezing the gasket. So, could someone safely/slightly squeeze the gasket now... and then later, say 20-60 minutes, fully tighten the gasket (with proper torque and cleaned threadings)? It will likely work, BUT.. be careful with the RTV/silicones... they ALL require lengthy time (60 minutes minimum, 12 hours is best, pending humidity in the ar (RTV requires humidity to fully cure)). PLUS... you don't want to let ANY RTV get inside the engine.. easily clogs various oil passages, oil pump screens, etc!!!
Can the Fel-Pro hi-temp gaskets (VS-50145R and related) be re-used? Technically, no gasket should be reused because of the compressed state it will have taken... and IF re-used it would have to be re-installed in the same exact location using the same exact castings, etc. However, you be the judge... I've re-used the valve cover gaskets for a few times (R/R the cover for valve train inspection and adjustments, etc), but eventually I'll replace the gaskets.... and having NO chemical adhering the gaskets is a huge plus since the gasket tabs fit securily into the valve covers (most covers will have the cut open side tabs for the gasket).
For any die-cut rubber or molded rubber gaskets, always look over them carefully to assure that the gaskets haven't split at any area (due to over squeezing). IF any splits are visible, be certain to replace the gasket. Also, re-inspect the gasket mating surfaces (cover and head) as there may be signs of out-of-flatness that would contribute to the excessive gasket squeezing.
Another "tip" is to use wide/long load-spreading washers at each cap screw or stud ... this spreads the clamping force widely instead of within a narrow area.