Let me get something straight here, you used caps so you could get the correct lash setting versus getting the right length pushrods? As I have heard it the caps are meant for titanium valves, but I wouldn't go that direction. Imagine the whole setup at 6k rpm jumping all over the place unless you are spot on. This is why I agree with hemiken and just eliminating another variable. With all the wear on your harlands I would definitely have the harland guys take a look at them before reusing them.
No, I did not.
No length of pushrod will change the location of the top of the valve. Once the rocker is on the tip of the valve, that's it. You measure for the correct length pushrod to allow the correct range of adjustment on the rocker. Running a shorter or longer pushrod just changes the location of the adjuster (as long as you assume you're setting the same preload). Yes, running the lash caps does require shorter pushrods, but the pattern on the tip of the valve was why I ran the lash caps, not because I had short pushrods.
The Harlands are toast. At the very least, that set isn't going back on. I have heard NOTHING back from Harland Sharp, despite sending them a nice long email, with pictures, of the situation. I didn't even blame the rockers, because while I know the rockers failed, I'm still not sure why. I'm going to email them again, and call if I don't hear anything again. At this point I don't even care if they replace the rockers, but I would like to know if they've ever seen this before, and what they think caused it. Even if they blame me or my heads or whatever.
Caps were the failure point.
I don't think so. The cap can't come off unless there's clearance to do so. Even with .030" of preload, it shouldn't be possible. The cap coming off probably happened AFTER the roller tip pin broke, and allowed the extra clearance. Only other possibility is that the lifter leaked down, and on startup there wasn't enough pressure to keep the cap in place. But even if that happened, it does not explain the worn out rockers, just the lost cap.
Something else cause the wear on the rockers. Bad geometry (which I checked and ruled out), excessive spring pressures, or possibly insufficient spring pressures causing valve float or bounce.