...they didn't want anything to do with me because they told me I was too nice...
No offense to any of the female members here, but I can't count how many times I've heard that from girls...whether it was directed at me or some other guy.
I really don't get it.
I have witnessed many situations where a girl dumps a nice guy, ends up with a jerk of a guy & THEN boo-hoo's when they decide he's treating them like crap. They go through all sorts of problems until they're finally rid of the jerk & then the next relationship they end up in is with
another jerk!!
Before I was married, I had chicks dump me for that reason. So I decided to take some notes & see how the jerks did it. I tried it out for a while (till I couldn't take it any more) & guess what? I snagged quite a few!...well, 3 to be exact.
Too bad they all sucked. :laughing:
Once I changed my demeanor to the real me, they suddenly seemed uninterested...which was a great way out for me, because...
they all sucked! :laughing:
I quit playing games after a while & a short while later, I found my wife.
I've seen it happen over & over in the 20 years since I married my wife & still, I don't get it.